Criticism

27/07/2021

The words we say reveal who we are and what we think - our identity and intentions. They create a friendly, creative atmosphere and have magical power. Words hurt and destroy too.

during which we work on reinforcing and deconstructive feedback.
People around us can make opinions that will cause our fear, anxiety, limitations and our self-blame. Thus, they express they story, jealousy, envy and even hatred. How to impregnate ourselves against the toxins in our environment, that can  ruin our own value ​​and may effectively manipulate us?

- DON'T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY 
 
This is one of 4 agreement that I recommend from Don Miguel Ruiz's book The Four Agreements. The criticism made by others is not about us, but about themselves. They are caused by their own assumptions, and even anxieties and beliefs that have been developed over the years. We are easily manipulated with bad and kind words. Good ones too? Of course. If we have a weakened self-esteem, we will excessively crave praise and acceptance, and if we do not get them in the proportions we need for our safety, we will again believe that we are weak.

As leaders, we can develop potential of our colleagues and direct reports and strengthen them. We can also weaken them by excessive and harsh criticism. I invite you to the workshop Conscious leadership and Manager's development.

If you you need individual support to deal with criticism, please do contact me about Diagnostics and Coaching.